Picking a Date

Unlike many people, I don’t have what I’d call a precipitating event that will set my retirement date in stone; I’m not reaching a magical age, my health is great (thank goodness), my job is as secure as any these days. I am lucky enough to be in the position of choosing to retire, and to retire relatively young. The only problem with this flexibility is that the date is fungible. Setting a timeline that is so far in the future doesn’t feel real. Earlier this year, I identified September as the month. September and October are often two of the nicest months weather-wise where I live. Not too hot, not yet cold and most of the tourists are gone. Yes, September is it!

So now, it’s the second week of September and I’m not only still working, I plan on working through December. I don’t remember actually changing my mind about leaving in September, but, as someone once said, “sometimes not to decide is to decide.” I just let enough time slip by so I could no longer give my work the several months notice I want to, and I didn’t do what I needed to do to mentally prepare for such a big change.

I have now identified the end of January as “the date.” Why? Several reasons come to mind. 1) January is my birth month and I can’t think of a better present to give myself; 2) My husband is making noises about wanting to travel (yay!) and I want to go with him; 3) I just found out that a co-worker is pregnant and due in March. When she went out on maternity leave with her first child, my “dream” job became more like a nightmare. I didn’t have the bandwidth to do both of our jobs so I started to stress out and to dread coming in every day. This had never happened to me before in this position and I vowed at the time never to experience it again.

The joy of a new baby has become a huge precipitating event that has pushed me into making a decision… just what I needed! I will be retired by January 31, 2014; well before the baby arrives so I can train my replacement and slip away without guilt.

There, it’s in writing and you are my witness.

What happened in your life to help transition you from the career world to retirement? If you aren’t retired yet, what is going to help you decide when to “pull the cord”?

3 thoughts on “Picking a Date”

  1. Sounds like you have good reasons for picking “the date”. What is nice about “retirement” is it can be anything that you want it to be. You are just freeing yourself from the workday grind to experience life without structure…and then YOU get to decide whether or not you want to build in structure, how much and what kind suits you.
    Good luck on your adventure!

    1. Shelley, you have no idea how excited I was to see your comment! I just started this blog and just have one or two friends looking at it. I love your vision for retirement. There is nothing wrong with a little structure, as long as it’s on my terms. Thanks again for taking the time to write.

      1. Hi Janis,
        I’m equally excited to see a blog about “retirement” that isn’t about 401Ks and financial issues. We are in the minority–but more and more of us are connecting in cyberspace.
        Keep writing and sharing!

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